Episode 11

Dismantling harassment in the workplace with kirsten anderson

Kirsten Anderson shares her experience of being sexually harassed and retaliated against in the workplace and how she turned her experience into a mission to end workplace harassment. She discusses the importance of normalizing conversations around harassment and creating a culture of comfort and confidence in the workplace. Kirsten emphasizes the need for permission, kindness, and civility in all interactions, and encourages individuals to challenge any feelings of discomfort or awkwardness they may have in the workplace. She also highlights the importance of speaking up and reporting harassment, as well as seeking support from trusted friends, family members, or HR professionals. Kirsten's book, "More Than Words," provides valuable insights and tactical scenarios for improving workplace culture and addressing harassment.

  • [0:00:12] Introduction to the podcast and guest, Kirsten Anderson

    [0:03:00] Kirsten's decision to speak up and take legal action

    [0:08:00] The toll of workplace harassment on mental and emotional well-being

    [0:11:30] The power dynamics and protection of harassers in organizations

    [0:18:00] Reframing from victim to target

    [0:20:30] Letting go of the need to figure out why you were targeted

    [0:25:30] The impact of workplace culture on family life

    [0:31:30] The importance of men supporting men in addressing workplace issues

    [0:38:30] The need for kindness and civility in the workplace

    [0:43:30] The role of men in ending workplace harassment

    [0:43:32] The importance of asking permission and kindness in interactions

    [0:44:16] The importance of speaking up when witnessing harassment

    [0:44:22] Advice for someone who suspects they are being targeted

    [0:45:57] The importance of challenging and questioning workplace situations

    [0:46:30] Closing remarks and gratitude for Kirsten Anderson's courage and support

    [0:47:00] Recommendation to read Kirsten's book "More Than Words"

    [0:48:14] Conclusion of the podcast and invitation for feedback and participation

Key Takeaways:

  • Sexual harassment is about power and control, not sex.

  • Workplace harassment is not unique, but it is often not talked about openly.

  • Organizations need to prioritize creating a culture of comfort and confidence to prevent harassment and create more engaged and productive workplaces.

  • Individuals should challenge any feelings of discomfort or awkwardness in the workplace and seek support from trusted sources.

  • Kirsten's book, "More Than Words," offers valuable resources and tactical scenarios for addressing workplace harassment.

About The Guest:

Kirsten Anderson is an author, advocate, communication consultant, and former target of sexual harassment and retaliation. She won a landmark sexual harassment case against the state of Iowa and now speaks and consults with organizations to help end workplace harassment.